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As you go through life dating, you slowly start to get a knack for spotting the red flags and the green flags. Sometimes we forget to take a moment to be grateful for all the green flags we find in a relationship. In a recent online poll, here are the top signs you are in a healthy relationship.

1. Conversations

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“Having conversations that lead to change and understanding, not arguments based on ego and pain,” someone shared.

2. Working as a Team

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“Sharing the hardships without blaming one another for them and working as a team to fix the downs in life while putting pettiness aside,” a user informed.

3. Setting Boundaries

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Someone shared, “I recently heard someone say “the only people who would be upset about you setting boundaries are those that benefit from you having none.”

4. Spending Time Apart

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“I just came back from a motorcycle road trip alone, and my partner is having a few days alone in another destination in one week. We really make an effort to go on vacation alone or with our own friends because one thing we both agree is that we enjoy being together because we have healthy time apart,” a person confessed.

5. Wanting Whats Best

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“When you are both with the other person because you want to be and you are a team and truly want the best for each other,” a person mentioned.

6. Not Flaunting it on Social Media

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“Not posting about it all over social media. I always thought the sign of a healthy relationship was no sign of it on Facebook,” a person stated.

7. Quiet Time Together

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A user shared, “Sometimes I just sit next to my husband while he plays his video games, and I prefer that over any sort of “exciting adventure.”

8. Not Talking About Your Significant Other All the Time

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“When someone doesn’t have to talk about their significant other every single time you talk to them,” someone informed.

9. Communication and Respect

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“The main answer is communication and respect, but how that looks to the outside world depends on the people involved,” a person informed.

10. Not in the Mood

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“Being able to tell your partner you are not in the mood, and that’s the end of it. They accept it and immediately move on,” someone said.

11. Sharing Responisblities

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“Getting up at 5 am with two little screaming monsters and spending all day cooking for your kids, entertaining those same kids, housework, arguing with each other, being completely exhausted, getting those same monsters into bed at a reasonable hour,” someone expressed.

12. No Judgements

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“When yall can talk openly about anything without feeling afraid or judged, instead feeling loved and supported,” somebody shared.

13. Not Checking Phones

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“Not feeling the need to check your spouse’s phone. Trust is so crucial to having a healthy relationship. If there’s no trust, feelings of insecurity and problems are bound to happen,” someone said.

14. Happiness

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Someone offered, “When you were both happy by yourselves and not looking for a relationship, but it just kinda happened.”

15. Safety

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“People feel safe to talk about their issues with each other—conversely, a relationship where people don’t feel safe to talk about their issues is not healthy, in my opinion,” someone stated.

15 Careers People Find To Be a Turnoff in a Prospective Partner

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When deciding to date someone, many factors come into play. Do you have enough in common? Are your values aligned? What type of career do they have? A recent online poll asked users to share what careers they find to be a turnoff in a prospective partner. Here are some of the most popular responses.

15 Careers People Find To Be a Turnoff in a Prospective Partner

17 Things Women Wish Men Would Stop Doing Immediately

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Men often have the best of intentions, but sometimes they do things that drive women up the wall. Things we would assume to be basic knowledge or common decency. We found a thread on a popular online forum where women were discussing specific things they wished men would stop doing. Here’s what they had to say.

17 Things Women Wish Men Would Stop Doing Immediately

15 Things People Would Say to Their Lost Loved One if Given One More Chance

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When you lose a loved one, it is never easy. Sometimes you know it is going to happen, and other times it happens out of the blue. Many people, no matter the circumstance, have something they would love to say to their loved ones if they were still here today. Some regret never saying it in the first place, and others want to say it one last time. We found a list of things people would love to say to their loved ones if they were still here.

15 Things People Would Say to Their Lost Loved One if Given One More Chance

17 Good First Date Ideas That Will Leave a Lasting Impression

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Going on a first date can be stressful. Not only are you trying to get to know each other, but you’re also going to be spending time together, hopefully doing an activity you will both enjoy. A recent online poll asks users what the most fun or creative date they’ve ever been on?” Here are some of the most popular responses.

17 Good First Date Ideas That Will Leave a Lasting Impression

15 Non-Romantic Things Your Ex Use To Do That You Miss Now

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Breakups are hard. After some time has passed, things seemingly get easier, but there still may be small gestures of love and appreciation that your ex used to do for you that you find yourself missing. A recent internet poll asked people to name some non-romantic things an ex used to do that you now miss. Here are some of the most popular answers.

15 Non-Romantic Things Your Ex Used To Do That You Miss Now

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