Intentional Living

To “live intentionally” means to live according to your values and beliefs.  I believe when we commit to being more thoughtful in how we spend our time and our money we can overcome the overwhelm, reduce financial stress, and live a more purposeful life.

Intentional living allows us to take better care of our minds and our bodies, and in turn, better care of those around us.

Here you’ll find content to help you spend less time and money on the things that matter less so you can create margin in your life and your budget to spend more on the things that matter most.

Woman holding her hands up in frustration and screaming

She’s Furious After Finding Out Her Boyfriend’s Mom Tried to Open a Credit Card in Her Name Without Asking

His mom has been using his girlfriend’s normal debit account for some time. Recently, without asking anyone, she went further and started applying for a credit card tied to that same account. She only stopped, likely because the application couldn’t be completed without his girlfriend physically present, and only got as far as cancelling it…

Woman looking very upset and in pain holding her head in her hands

She Shared One Free Meal With Her Landlords, and They Threatened to End Her Lease When She Didn’t Share the Next One

She moved into a renovated basement unit last month, renting from a small family who own the property, a husband, his pregnant wife, and their 7-year-old daughter. Her unit came with its own bathroom, bedroom, and living area, but the kitchen upstairs is shared. Her lease spells out the arrangement clearly. Any food or drinks…

Couple looking at a paper looking worried

They’ve Tested Every Way They Walk to Prove They’re Not Too Loud, but Their Neighbor Still Wants Them to Pay for Rug Pads

New downstairs neighbor moves into a condo below a family with a newborn, immediately raises concerns about footstep noise, something the previous neighbor of eight years never once mentioned in that same unit. Slippers got tried at N’s suggestion, no meaningful change. A live listening test followed a week later, one spouse walking upstairs while…

Men arguing at a table in a sports bar

He Split the Bill After a Friend Snuck a $35 Order Onto His Tab, and Now Half the Group Says He Overreacted

Fantasy football draft party at a nice sports bar, six guys total, hosting duties covered as the previous league winner: first round of drinks plus appetizer platters on his tab. The explicit ask going in was simple, keep it reasonable. Three large platters of traditional bone-in wings ordered for the whole table to share, everyone…

Secretary with a messy desk yelling on the phone

Her Employer Laid Her Off Because She Made Her Job Too Efficient and Is Now Holding Her Severance Until She Writes Step-by-Step Documentation for Every Macro She Built to Save Them Twenty Hours a Week

The coordinator role started with a real problem: fifteen to twenty hours every week burned on manual client log updates and spreadsheet formatting. Building a handful of macros and formula templates cut that down to about an hour, freeing up nearly two full workdays a week for higher-value work. Last Friday, that efficiency became the…

Man and woman arguing in the kitchen

Her Fiancé Wants Her to Cover 70 Percent of Their Jointly Planned Wedding Because She Out-Earns Him, and She’s Wondering If This Is How Every Big Expense Is Going to Work Once They’re Married

She’s 32, he’s 34, together five years and getting married next spring. She earns roughly $145k, he earns around $85k. They’ve never fully merged finances, splitting rent 60/40 to account for the income gap, but keeping vacations and everyday expenses loose, with neither one tracking who owes what on the small stuff. Wedding planning started…