Intentional Living

To “live intentionally” means to live according to your values and beliefs.  I believe when we commit to being more thoughtful in how we spend our time and our money we can overcome the overwhelm, reduce financial stress, and live a more purposeful life.

Intentional living allows us to take better care of our minds and our bodies, and in turn, better care of those around us.

Here you’ll find content to help you spend less time and money on the things that matter less so you can create margin in your life and your budget to spend more on the things that matter most.

Couple sitting on couch arguing

She Says They Need Every Paycheck Before Relocating but Her Husband Wants Out Now No Matter the Cost

What started as support for a career change is turning into a constant source of stress. Her husband has hated his job for a while and has been asking to leave. She hasn’t shut that down. She’s been clear that she’s on board, as long as the transition doesn’t put their family at risk. The…

Couples fight and offended

Woman Says Her Boyfriend Pays for Date Nights but Contributes Nothing to the Home They Share and It’s Starting to Bother Her

What looks simple on the surface is really about balance, not just money. She owns the home, covers all household expenses, and buys most of the groceries. He lives there rent-free, handles his own personal bills, and usually pays when they go out, which creates a kind of informal trade-off between them. The Current Setup…

Annoyed Gen X woman wearing a hat and raising her fist

Woman Says Group Expects Her to Pay More for Cruise Just Because She’s Sharing a Room With Her Husband and She Feels it’s Unfair

What started as a simple group trip is now turning into a situation she’s not sure how to address. She and her husband are planning a cruise with friends, and because a couple people are on tighter budgets, they’re looking at more affordable cruise options. At first, everything seemed straightforward, but once they started pricing…

Older man looking ahead with a somber look on his face

He Says He’s Debating Canceling a $20K Family Trip After a Terminal Diagnosis to Leave More Behind to His Family

What he thought would be a normal season of planning has turned into something much heavier. He was recently told he likely has between six and twelve months left, and instead of focusing only on himself, his attention has shifted almost entirely to making sure his family will be okay. As the primary earner, he’s…

Young middle class couple paying bills and looking stressed

Man Says He Bought His Home Years Before the Relationship and Now His Fiancé Wants to Be Added to the Title After Getting Engaged

What should have been a happy next step is now raising questions he didn’t expect to deal with this early. He bought his house five years ago, long before this relationship started, and has been the one paying the mortgage and covering repairs ever since. It’s something he built on his own, both financially and…

Middle-aged couple arguing in the kitchen

She Says His Daughters Don’t Like Her but He Still Expects Them to Build a Relationship and She’s Not Comfortable

What started as a flexible, independent relationship is starting to feel more complicated than she expected. She’s 43 and has been dating her boyfriend, who is 59, for almost two years. For the most part, things have worked well because they both value their space, and they’ve built a routine around spending intentional time together…