Intentional Living

To “live intentionally” means to live according to your values and beliefs.  I believe when we commit to being more thoughtful in how we spend our time and our money we can overcome the overwhelm, reduce financial stress, and live a more purposeful life.

Intentional living allows us to take better care of our minds and our bodies, and in turn, better care of those around us.

Here you’ll find content to help you spend less time and money on the things that matter less so you can create margin in your life and your budget to spend more on the things that matter most.

Young woman looking upset while looking at her phone

Someone Intercepted Her Debit Card Before It Ever Reached Her Mailbox, Activated It, Changed the PIN, and Drained $3,000 From Her Savings Account Before She Even Saw the Activation Email

She’d recently opened a new checking and savings account with Citi, but the debit card the bank mailed to her never actually arrived. Today, she received three separate emails within about three minutes of each other, one confirming her debit card had been activated, another saying an online banking profile had been created, and a…

Woman sitting with her head in her hand looking upset

She’s Ignored Her Aunt’s Request to Move In After Watching Her Get Asked to Leave Her Previous Two Homes for Not Showering, Not Working, and Refusing to Help With a Single Chore

Her aunt was 45 and had spent the last several years bouncing between family members’ homes, a pattern that had already played out at least twice before this latest request. Years earlier, she’d spent about 15 years in a relationship with a man who had children of his own, helping raise them as though they…

Parents arguing with their adult daughter

She Offered to Contribute $2,000 a Month to Her Parents’ Mortgage and Her Dad Said He Wasn’t Forcing Her Into Anything but Also Wouldn’t Budge on the $3,000 He Wanted From Her Every Month

She was 22, recently started full time, and bringing home about $6,400 a month after taxes while still living with her parents. Recently, her parents had asked her to contribute $3,000 every month toward their mortgage for the next three years, framing it explicitly as a loan rather than a gift, one they said they’d…

Man holding his credit card and looking happy

Her Husband’s Credit Card Bonus Hobby Made $10,000 Last Year and She’s Worried Now That He’s Buying Gift Cards in Bulk and Running Them Through Money Orders to Fake the Required Spending

Her husband had gotten deeply into credit and debit card churning over the past year, a hobby he’d picked up after finding a website with a name close to drofcredit.com. The strategy involved opening new checking accounts and credit cards specifically to earn sign up bonuses, then closing those accounts six months or more later…

Man looking frustrated while looking at his phone

He Signed Financing Docs, Drove His New Car Home, and Got a Call 16 Days Later Saying the Loan Was Denied and His Trade-In Had Already Been Sold at Auction

Sixteen days earlier, he’d bought a car from a dealership in Florida, signed all the financing paperwork, and driven the vehicle home believing everything had been finalized. The paperwork itself listed a specific lender, an interest rate, and a monthly payment figure, all the standard details that would normally indicate a completed transaction rather than…

Man sitting in driver's side looking at the Uber app on his cellphone

He Got Out of His Uber Without Tipping and Watched a $5 Tip Charge Appear on His App and Thinks the Driver Time to Reach Back and Select It From the Rear Seat Screen Himself

His Uber that day had a screen mounted on the back of the front passenger seat, the kind that displays ads throughout the ride and also lets riders pre-select a tip before the trip officially ends. He didn’t choose a tip on that screen, assuming the app would prompt him to rate the driver and…