Sometimes one simple thought can change your entire perspective. Sometimes it just takes one simple thought to bring you peace of mind and liberate you from the voices inside your head.
A woman asked other women in a popular online forum, “What is the most liberating thought you’ve ever had?” Here are some of the most popular answers.
1. They Don’t Think About Me
One woman said, “People don’t think about me nearly as much as I think they think about me.” They’re just as busy as you are…
2. I Can Leave
Another woman answered, “I don’t have to stay til the end. I can leave if I want to.”
3. It’s Not About You
“The way people treat you has little to do with how they feel about you and a lot to do with how they feel about themselves,” one user shared. People tend to project their own insecurities onto others.
4. It’s OK
A good one to remember is, “That it is okay. Everything is okay.” Remind yourself often.
5. It’s Not Dependent on My Looks
One woman confessed, “My existence is not dependent on how attractive others find me.” You’re worthy of a good life regardless of how you look.
6. I’m Amazed
“I exist to live and be amazed at the fact that I’m alive at all.” Gratitude is the best attitude.
7. Flip the Script
“I don’t have to follow the life script of getting married, buying a house, having kids, etc.” You can do things on your own timeline.
8. No Explanations Needed
One woman commented, “I don’t have to explain myself to anyone.” Words to live by!
9. Just Say “No”
“No” is a complete sentence.” It’s important to realize you can say “no” without needing to explain yourself or justify your answer.
10. I Am
“I am enough.” You really are. Just the way you are.
11. Not Lonely
“Enjoying your time alone doesn’t make you lonely.” Remember, just because society says so doesn’t mean it’s true.
12. Rely on You
“The only person you can rely on to take care of you is yourself.” You must make yourself and your own well-being your priority.
13. They Don’t Have To
“Not everyone has to like me, and I don’t have to like them, either.” It’s okay to not be friends with everyone you meet.
14. I Can Change
“I don’t have to be the same person I was one minute ago.” You can change every month – or day – if you want to. It’s part of figuring out who you are and who you want to be.
15. People Want Friends
“Most people want friends more than they want to judge others.” We often assume people will judge us, but giving them the benefit of the doubt may prove you wrong!
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Inspired by this thread – photos for illustrative purposes only.