His dad asked him something last week that had been sitting with him ever since. He wanted to know if his son would be okay with him and his wife splitting their estate unevenly, giving his sister a bigger share. His mom wasn’t even in the room for that conversation, which said something about how…
He found an IRS letter in his wife’s car earlier that day, sitting in the console like it had been there a while. He wasn’t snooping, he was just grabbing something and it was right on top. As it turned out, his wife owed the IRS about $82,000 from a house she’d sold years before…
She and her husband are in their mid to late thirties, both in high-paying careers in a high cost of living city, and they have an ongoing disagreement about what is reasonable to expect from visits with his family. A few years ago, his sister and her partner, both in their late thirties, stayed with…
A few weeks ago, her husband’s mother called and asked for his Social Security number so she could search an unclaimed property website for money that might belong to family members. She found something in Kansas, a state her husband has not lived in since he was 11 years old, about 24 years ago. Now…
Last September he reconnected with cousins from his home country and decided to help. He started sending $200 a month to cover general living expenses for a household that includes his grandfather, an aunt, and a cousin. The reconnection felt genuine at first. Regular FaceTime calls, frequent messages, the sense that something real was being…
Three years ago, things fell apart at his fine dining job and he scrambled to piece together enough income to stay afloat. He drove for Uber, worked farmers markets, barbacked at a tourist bar, and eventually delivered pizzas for Domino’s. His girlfriend wanted to move to Austin, so he went, they broke up shortly after,…
