Intentional Living

To “live intentionally” means to live according to your values and beliefs.  I believe when we commit to being more thoughtful in how we spend our time and our money we can overcome the overwhelm, reduce financial stress, and live a more purposeful life.

Intentional living allows us to take better care of our minds and our bodies, and in turn, better care of those around us.

Here you’ll find content to help you spend less time and money on the things that matter less so you can create margin in your life and your budget to spend more on the things that matter most.

Couple looking frustrated talking to car salesman

They Told the Dealer Up Front They Were Paying Cash for a Car, and Afterward Found Out He Ran Both of Their Credit Reports Through Two Different Bureaus

A man and his wife walked into a car dealership planning to pay cash. They told the dealer up front how much money they had to spend. After the deal was done, they found out the dealership had run credit reports on both of them through two different credit bureaus. Now he’s wondering whether the…

Woman looking surprised on a zoom call at work

She’s Torn Between Her $78,000 Job and a Massive Raise, Because Taking It Means Pretending to Be Someone Else Online for Years

A 29-year-old woman working in corporate communications makes about $78,000 a year. She was recently approached about a role that would pay $130,000, a raise of more than 60 percent. After two interviews, she learned the job would essentially mean running a CEO’s entire online presence, with posts going out under his name that he…

Woman looking at a receipt with a stressed look on her face

A Second Repairman Fixed Her Furnace for $400 After the First Company Said She Needed an $8,500 Replacement, and Now That Company Is Threatening to Put a Lien on Her House

A homeowner’s heat stopped working during a freeze, so she called a well-reviewed local heating company that advertised free in-home estimates. The technician looked at her furnace for about 15 minutes and quoted her $8,500 to replace the entire unit. She got a second opinion, and another repairman fixed the problem for $400. Days later,…

New dad yawning while holding infant

His Wife Is the Only Nurse in the Family and Spends Six Hours Every Other Day Caring for Her Aunt on Hospice, While the Aunt’s Sons Refuse to Spend Her $140k on Help

A man’s wife has been driving two hours round trip every other day to provide medical care for her aunt, who has terminal cancer and is on hospice. While she’s gone, he’s working full time from home while caring for their 3-year-old and 8-month-old. Then, while helping sort paperwork, he discovered the aunt has $160,000…

Man sitting with doctor looking upset at a bill

The Dentist Said He’d Take Care of One More Spot While He Was in There, and Didn’t Mention It Would Cost $595 Until He Was Checking Out

A man went to the dentist for three fillings he’d already paid for in advance. Partway through, the dentist mentioned another spot he wanted to take care of while he was in there. The man didn’t object, assuming he’d be told if it cost extra. When he walked out, the front desk handed him a…

Mature woman paying bills

Her Mom Has Been Retired for 15 Years and Never Shared a Single Detail About Her Finances, and Now She’s Scared She’ll Be Left Figuring It All Out Alone

A woman’s mother retired at 55 and is now in her early 70s. In all that time, she’s never shared a single detail about how she managed it. Her daughter doesn’t know how much money her mom has, whether the house is paid off, or if there’s any insurance in place. She’s starting to wonder…