Intentional Living

To “live intentionally” means to live according to your values and beliefs.  I believe when we commit to being more thoughtful in how we spend our time and our money we can overcome the overwhelm, reduce financial stress, and live a more purposeful life.

Intentional living allows us to take better care of our minds and our bodies, and in turn, better care of those around us.

Here you’ll find content to help you spend less time and money on the things that matter less so you can create margin in your life and your budget to spend more on the things that matter most.

Older man sleeping on a couch with a bunch of pillows

Her Father-in-Law Hasn’t Worked Since COVID and Is Running a Collectibles Business That Never Actually Sells Anything While She and Her Husband Cover Every Buffet, Every Outing, and Every $1,000 Loan the Family Needs

She and her husband had become the default financial safety net for her in-laws and their minor kids, covering the cost of nearly every shared activity. Buffets, outings, whatever the plan happened to be, it was consistently her and her husband’s treat. Beyond covering day to day activities, they’d also lent out $1,000 at various…

Parents arguing with adult daughter

She’s 16, Saved $331 From Her First Job, and Just Found Out Her Parents Have Been Using Her Debit Card for Two Months While Telling Her It Was Lost in Their Room

She was 16 and had recently discovered that her parents had taken $331.48 out of her bank account, an amount that represented almost everything she had left saved from her first job the year before. According to what she’d pieced together, they’d been using her debit card while telling her it had simply been lost…

Young couple arguing over money

Her Parents Gave Her Brother the Majority of the Cabin Sale for His Home Purchase, Gave Her the Smaller Share, and Her Brother Still Called Her Petty a Week Later for Refusing to Hand Over Part of What Remained

Before their family cabin sold after sitting empty for years, her parents told her and her brother that whatever remained after taxes and fees would be split evenly between the two of them. She wasn’t counting on the money and genuinely appreciated the gesture, seeing it as a generous decision on her parents’ part rather…

Annoyed Gen X woman wearing a hat and raising her fist

A Woman Who Remarried 23 Years Ago Is Furious She Wasn’t Left a Share of Her Former Mother-in-Law’s Estate and Says She’s Owed Her Late Husband’s Portion Even Though the Will Said Living Children Only

A distant family member had been married to a man who was the oldest of six siblings. He passed away well before the rest of his siblings, and their mother went on to outlive her son by many years afterward. His widow eventually remarried, moving on with a new spouse and building a separate life…

Woman looking very upset and in pain holding her head in her hands

She Signed the Divorce Papers in 2021, Got a Text Saying Everything Was Done, Built $70,000 in Equity and Investments Over Five Years, and Found Out Last Week She’s Still Legally Married

She and her husband had separated in early 2021 after 11 years of marriage. He’d moved out shortly afterward, filed for divorce, and the two of them had signed several documents through his attorney, dividing furniture and bank accounts between themselves and agreeing that each would keep their own debts and future income going forward….

Mother yelling and daughter who looks sad

She’s a Teenager Who Refused to Fund Her Mom’s Lifestyle With Her Part-Time Paycheck and Her Mom Responded by Cutting Off Everything Except Groceries and Telling Her She Owed Her for Being Raised

She was a teenager who’d gotten her first job a few months earlier, initially earning around $40 a week during the school year, an amount that only covered her expected contribution toward gas money for getting to and from work. Once summer started and her hours picked up considerably, her weekly earnings climbed to somewhere…