Her Fiancé Wants Her to Cover 70 Percent of Their Jointly Planned Wedding Because She Out-Earns Him, and She’s Wondering If This Is How Every Big Expense Is Going to Work Once They’re Married
She’s 32, he’s 34, together five years and getting married next spring. She earns roughly $145k, he earns around $85k. They’ve never fully merged finances, splitting rent 60/40 to account for the income gap, but keeping vacations and everyday expenses loose, with neither one tracking who owes what on the small stuff. Wedding planning started…