7 Things Men Do That Turn Women Off Immediately

A woman posted on Reddit asking other women navigating the dating scene to share some things that reveal a person, or their significant other, is insecure. 

Here are some of the most popular responses.

7 Things Men Do That Turn Women Off Immediately 

Being Conceited

One woman contributed, “They’re conceited and talk too highly of themselves. It’s always a front.”


“Consistent self-deprecation. A few offhand jokes are funny, but putting themselves down constantly is a drag,” one woman chimed in.

One of the most upvoted comments stated, “No drive. Someone who never offers an idea like where or what to eat, what to do, always wants you to make decisions. I don’t mind making decisions, but it’s such a turnoff when I have to make ALL decisions. It’s not hard to sit there and vocalise that you feel like a cheeseburger for dinner.”

Lack of Drive

A few Redditors mentioned that jealousy and possessiveness indicated insecurity to them.


Many Redittors agreed that constant apologizing screams insecurity. One woman shared, “Constantly apologizing, especially about things that don’t even make sense to do so.”


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